Need cleaning help for pee on toilet and vinyl floor. Suggestions?

Hubbys briefs don't fit right, number 1. Not if he's wearing them full time and pooping on the carpet. And sitting down on the toilet and peeing all over the floor. I'd get him tab diaper type disposables that can be adjusted to fit. Then accompany him to the bathroom to see what's going on with your own 2 eyes. You can lay down puppy training pads around the toilet bowl, but not in front of it to create a tripping hazard. My husband is 66 with no cognition issues and pees all over the floor in the bathroom, because he doesn't pay attention. It's a man thing for many of them. They're ok living in a stinking pigsty too, what do they care? Basically everything magically gets cleaned up FOR them, so paying attention isn't necessary anyway. If you start accompanying dh into the john, maybe HE will start paying more attention, magically.

When my late husband was no longer able to get all of his pee in the toilet, I made him sit down to pee every time, as I was tired of cleaning pee off the floor and toilet every day as well.
He didn't like it much at first, but I was insistent and told him he didn't have a choice anymore. I used the bedside commode and put it over the top of his toilet so he was sitting up a bit higher as he was a fall risk, and could use the side handles to get himself up.
As far as getting the poop out of the carpet, any heavy duty carpet cleaner should do the trick, especially if it's designed to get out pet accidents.
It also may be time for your husband to wear Depends(or the like)full-time now if he's pooping on the floor and can no longer get his pee in the toilet. That will be the next step you know, and that step may be here now.

I ordered those blue and white disposable pads that you can use on the bed, I’ll cut to fit around the base of the toilet. When wet, just throw away into a plastic (grocery) bag.
Peeing all over the toilet area makes me so angry!

A Mr. Clean Magic Eraser will get the pee crust off the base of the toilet. Spray the toilet with a bleach-based cleaner (Scrubbing Bubbles brand with bleach is excellent). Wait a few minutes, then go at it with the magic eraser. Or even a toilet brush will get that off.

I hope you have a rug shampooer. If you don't, get one. I can't imagine not having a rug shampooer and I don't even live with incontinent people.

There is a product for smells called Pooph!. It's available from Amazon and I think Target too. This product is like a miracle for smells.
I had which I believe is about the most nasty and disgusting job on earth. I was a visiting CNA/caregiver to people in their homes. I did this work for 25 years. If there was no product like Pooph! available years ago. It eliminates every smell. There's even one for the laundry.

Pick up the products mentioned here, and you'll do all right with getting it cleaned up.

Try a handheld steam cleaner. However, it might deteriorate the caulking at base of toilet over time.

If you don’t want to try that, spray with any bathroom cleaner, let sit for a few hours to dissolve rustiness, the wipe away. Perhaps you could try a disposable pad and wrap around toilet base and floor - you’d have to be careful not to make a tripping hazard.

My husband also can make a mess. I try to go in right after him and wipe up if needed. The longer you let it go, the more difficult it is to clean. But I know it’s difficult when you are the caregiver to do it all.

As for carpet, try one of those enzyme cleaners made for pet messes (they have for human messes too). Remember a fresh stain is always easier to clean than an old set in one.

On carpet follow directions on cleaner and do not rub…blot on an old white towel that you can toss or wash towel with a little bleach when you are done. Blotting with a white towel will let you see the stain transferred from carpet to towel. It’s next to impossible to tell with any other color of towel. I used buy some cheap white towels just for purposes of cleaning carpet stains. Blotting the stain up on a white towel will take a fair amount of time. Keep changing position of towel to a clean area of towel when you see stain coming up. Keep going until you don’t see anymore stain transfer on white towel. Then get another white towel and stand on it over stain to help dry area.

But again, when you see it happen clean it right then if at all possible, or at least as soon as possible,

You might look into purchasing an electric spin scrubber. The one I have has an extended handle and several different brush attachments. It is most excellent in getting around the base of toilets, corners, grout, flat services, just about anywhere actually, without having to get down on hands and knees. Plus, you don't have to handle the mess up close and personal. I bought mine on Amazon. Originally, I was just thinking for bathtub and shower, but I've ended up cleaning an 'explosive accident' of my father's and have since discovered many uses for it. So sorry for your situation. Many blessings.

Ive had to get right down on my knees with Mr Clean and paper towels.
If he's able, a funnel from Walmart automotive dept. has been very helpful (No doubt that's amusing but it WORKS). I was sick and tired of the mess, smell and another disgusting chore.

Try shaving cream in the bathroom toilet and floor. Let it sit for 30+ minutes or more. That will help with the clean-up and the smell.

I too am super sensitive to smells. I have so many air fresheners all over my dad's house. Before my stepmom passed everything they used was scent-free. I can't do it any longer. I changed all the laundry detergent, fabric softener, bath and body soaps, air fresheners, Fabreeze, etc... I need to smell something other than "old" people smell.
Thankfully my father has been understanding.

I have even baked dozens of cookies to make the house smell nice.

Hang in there.

Starr

I use Comet bathroom cleaner. Have for years. It has clorox in it and cleans very well. You may need to hand scrub around the toilet floor. I would use a toothbrush around the base to really get into that groove. Yes, time for him to sit.

Odoban, it's a enzyme cleaner specifically for urine