Mom is 85 years old, she was in the hospital for 11 days, I rescued her and brought her with me. She is getting better, but my blood pressure has gone up, my life has been given fullen to this woman. She feels I owe her for years ago, I am constantly getting her back to health, I am tired. I can't do it anymore.
Good luck.
-SS
Spend the time to look for a facility and check her in. Or hire an aid for 8hrs and leave the house. The facility will offer companionship, food and health care for the same cost as the 8hr. aid. When looking at the facility check out the caregivers , they are the backbone of the spirit and care. Sit down and have a dinner there and make sure the meals are carefully planned and edible. Take your time so that the move can be her last.
Texas is a great state to live in for senior services. If you think that you and she should not be living together, there are several good options in the communities around you. You would still be taking care of her, just not in your own home.
Probably most people in the group know how you feel. Most of us probably never imagined that we would be living with our parents at our age!