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It's become clear to me through posts and PMs that there are some gardeners here just waiting for the chance to discuss gardening!

So, I was thinking... how do you use gardening, or how does it affect you if you need a break, need some respite, need to relax, need inspiration....how do you use it as a therapy tool in caregiving?

What are your activities: Do you go out and pull weeds, read a magazine, design new beds? Look through garden catalogues? Go to garden stores?
And what interests have you added to your gardening? Visit estate or garden displays? Do you go to garden shows?

Does anyone design and plant Knot Gardens? Raised bed planters? Assistive gardens? Pollinator gardens (and have you thought of ways to help the bees and butterflies?)

Are your gardens primarily for pleasure or food, or a mix of both? Do you grow plants for medicinal purposes? Which ones, how do you harvest and process them? Any suggestions?

Do you grow plants that can be used in crafts, such as grapevines for wreaths and lavender for lavender wands? Do you make herbal products such as creams, lotions, chapstick?

What else can you share about gardening and the means in which it nurtures your soul?

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Chance of rain, just to clarify.
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40 percent charain later, so if water my plants it will rain, if I don't , I bet it won't rain. 🤔
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Willie, I've heard farmers saying that corn can grow so fast , that you can hear it grow. Google says it's true, but I've never heard it.
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I bumped into an old neighbour when I was out walking the other day and he said his corn grew 6" over night during the heat wave, his field is expected to be waist high by the first of July. I think most farmers here are on track this year despite the cool, wet spring; the first cut of hay is done and I've noticed the winter wheat is already starting to turn colour.
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Cwillie, hopefully next year you get at least 2, but you will probably get lots more!

Things are drying up here, been able to get out and at least enjoy what I did get planted, and better weather.
Farmers are out, the corn is not going to be " knee high, by the fourth of July" this year.

And I've been walking more, much more active, started to feel a bit blubbery, after sitting to much with hubs! All feels really nice!!
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After years of losing everything to bugs, birds, squirrels and chipmunks I finally have a bowl of my own strawberries to eat🍓 Unfortunately one bowl will probably be all I get 😆
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Gardening in fact can be very relaxing. I mix artificial plants with real - they are getting so advanced now some are so hard to tell the difference and look fantastic all year round. It cuts the gardening chores as well making them manageable. I designed my garden and its very relaxing with whites blues and purples... and an archway feature with an oldie woldie little boy/water feature, Its so wonderful to watch at night with garden lights (battery ones). Even if you do not have a garden a nice design on window sill could look amazing. Its in everyones capabilities to make a calm oasis. Next to a bench maybe some real relaxing lavender. A lady in work turned her garden into a vegetable and fruit garden and brough some in They were amazing looking and larger than in the shops and didnt have all sorts of nonsense sprayed onto them. even herbs on the kitchen window - that you can use while cooking.The skys the limit' - :-)
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Over on the gardening reddit people often post pictures of robust plants growing in places like cracks in the pavement or in eavestroughs or poking up through sewer grates, and they lament that their plants aren't half as nice even with all the coddling they give them. Plants just doing what plants want to do.
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I don’t know who needs to hear this, but you’re a great gardener. That plant really should have tried harder.
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Golden, still raining here, farmers are having a very hard time getting on the fields , rain stopped this morning, but cloudy 65 ish and damp!! Hey mushrooms are growing great. 😂
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itrr - great suggestion. I'll let him know. His skin is till really bad though the air quality is back to normal. Healing is going to take a while.

daughter - glad your flowers are growing well weeds - not so much,

way I love hydrangeas but never have been where they will grow. Enjoy!!!

More rain here -badly needed. The field next door is getting greener and greener.
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My hydrangeas are absolutely HUGE this year . The lavender smells lovely . A bit less humid this morning which was nice.
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Sorry the hubby’s are dealing with such yucky issues. Hopes for healing soon. I just came in from mowing half the yard, will do the other half in a bit. It’s officially miserable outdoors. We say we don’t breathe air we can’t see in the summer, and this week is the time that’s begun, lovely humidity. The flowers are growing, as are the weeds, but soon I’ll just be hiding mostly inside
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Golden, I would encourage him to use something topical that can act as a barrier. I love jojoba oil, which is a natural wax, for creating a barrier that holds up to several hand washings. Add Shea nut oil and it is luxurious on the skin.

Just a thought, my honey gets rashes from exposure and we keep a spray bottle for him in the shower.
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Daisy I expect it will take a while for your hub to fully recover. Sorry to hear about your friends bro not good news.

Way - that island sounds wonderful. Love the sound of waves.

ITRR makes sense. Thank you. He said it was better over night but now is aggravated by his hands being in hot soapy water.

Today thankfully it is cloudy and cool and the air quality is good which should give him a chance to heal. He had it before but this is by far the worst session.
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Just a heads up on oatmeal baths, you can use the oatmeal from your pantry if you can't get some at the drug store. Take a cup and put it in the blender and make it as powdery as you can. In the bath with it and collidial oatmeal bath ready.

(I do it this way always, way cheaper and that always works. I use organic oatmeal)

Golden prayers that R is healed quickly and doesn't suffer to much. Skin can be such a total nuisance when flared up.
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Daisy ,
I only like summer if I’m at the beach , otherwise I prefer Fall .
Being land locked the last 20 years, I miss summers when I lived on an island , where we could be at the beach in minutes whenever we wanted .
We went all year long . Even bundled the kids up when they were young to see light snow. So empty and peaceful , sound of the waves and the kids chasing snow flakes .
The beach was my church , it was where I felt most calm .
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When this summer is over, I'm planning on never complaining about winter again!!

Husband is sore, hands and wrist, I'm sure it's because he has done too much, doc said this could last a while.

Now your Golden's husband, not fun at all.

My friends brother, is just getting worse, no answers, now breathing issues, in an induced come. looking like he may not make it. All parisit test take a culture, hopefully be back tomorrow.

Right about now, I'd like a good old fashion snow storm!! 😓
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Ah, hard experience. Yes he has two, in fact. I'll mention cooling towels. I suppose ordinary towels wet and wrung out and put in the fridge would work too.

Sorry you have (had?) skin allergies. He had big welts but the baking soda paste helped them.
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Golden ,
I have had a lot of skin allergies. Not fun.
Is there a refrigerator at the farm ? They have those cooling towels too you put in the fridge.
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Gosh, Way you are a fountain of knowledge on this. Many thanks, I'll let him know. He is not person who sweats much but it still might help. He is out the farm most of the time these days as there is a lot to be done there . The well water is VERY hard - not the best quality. He doesn't drink it. I'll make sure he takes some baking soda with him.
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Golden ,

Sweat mixed with the pollution from the wild fires and baked from the sun may also cause problems . Probably rinsing with a water hose at intervals may help rather than letting it sit on his skin until he showers at home .
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Thx Way. I thought of that too. Thank you. Also a baking soda bath. The baking soda paste has left him more comfortable and the other things should kick in too. He's gone to the farm again.

He is out in the sun all the time, Interesting that sun makes the pollution affect worse. Probably a wide brimmed hat, rolled down sleeves and gloves would help. I'll pass that on to him.

Daisy -thank you I'll tell him. I hope he can keep it somewhat suppressed.

The doctor is from another continent and probably has little experience with the effects of our wildfires.
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Golden, I Google " can poor air quality, from wild fires, cause rashes"" came back yes! There is quite a bit of good info on it, when you get time , I don't know how to send links here.
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Golden ,

Try oatmeal bath . The kind you buy at the pharmacy . I’ve used it for bad sunburns or other contact/exposure rashes .

Pollution exposure can be made worse by sun exposure . BTDT.
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Well. the doctor basically said (in long words) it was photosensitivity, (with which we disagree) and gave R what I had given him only stronger - double the antihistamines and stronger cortisone cream. We believe it is a reaction to the air pollution as that is when it has flared up. Anyway, I'm glad its not a tick bite.

A nurse suggested baking soda paste to stop the itching and it helped. He looks like he has been beaten up!

Send, that would probably work for the mosquito bites. We used to use it years ago for bee, wasp and hornet stings. I don't have any preventative ideas except don't wear dark clothing. Mosquitoes are attracted to it. Wear light colours when you go outside.

The air quality is a bit better today but who knows what we are looking at for the rest of the summer.
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Thank you ITRR!
Guarding against that, will give it extra attention.
Thank you!
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Send, I have found that low potassium makes me mosquito bait. Eating more potassium rich foods or using the low sodium salt replacement helps keep me free from being eaten alive. Peppermint oil on exposed skin keeps bugs away too.

Hope you feel better, allergic reaction to mosquitos can be tough.

Golden, I hope your hubby is okay with a simple solution to whatever is going on.
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Staying inside today because mosquitos got my forearm and elbow, very swollen,
feeling ill x 3 days. Going to try Claritin for allergies, after trying everything each of you mentioned.
dH is outside, watering our newest plants and our oldest Bouganvilla. It took a neighbor to come to our door and telling him to water our plants, so he listened. Mosquitos do not attack him.

In the last few days, he had placed a plastic cutting board in the microwave to use as a lid. He must be under stress, watching the L.A. riots full time and not listening to me about moving away from the computer.

Ok then, my day is done here. God Bless every caregiver on this forum!
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Golden, I'm glad he went to doctors, doesn't sound like he is the type to act like he knows more than the doctor either. I hope he gets some relief soon, that's gotta be miserable
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