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My grandmother is in a nursing home. What can I do to help keep her mind stimulated? She is 100 years young with no medical problems
NancyH
Give a Hug
Nov 13, 2010
If she can see still she can do crossword puzzles etc. If she can't see that well, then you and her can do them together. Also, find a book that you think would be stimulating and either read it to her, or let her read. Even those stupid tabloids are enough to make anyone laugh out loud and comment on. That ought to be stimulating in itself. What about having her go through all her old pictures and start writing who's who on the backs? Once she's gone, those faces will be strangers to the family left behind if she doesn't label them for you. What about you and her writing some of her memoirs? After all 100 years old is something to celebrate, and take note of I would think. She probably has a lot to say about how things were done 100 years ago.
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chadburbage1
Nov 16, 2010
Keep her iinvolved in her own affairs and informed about all the challenges you and other's are having. Seek her input and advice on matters. Discuss current events with her. Outside excursions are always a means to generate excitement and future discussions. Build the anticipation for tomorrow's event.
naricinfo
Check with your state's library for the blind and physically handicapped (http://www.loc.gov/nls/). They can provide large print books, audiobooks and listening equipment, and more, all for free.ABLEDATA (www.abledata.com) also has a long list of assistive technology for recreation like card holders for solitaire and supports for knitting and crocheting needles.
BridgetW
How about having her color? Watch Turner Classic Movies and have her sing along or tell you stories about the movies and how she remembers them. Be sure to take her outside once in awhile to "change the air" in her lungs. She can tell you what birds she see's, flowers she smell's. Just a few thoughts. Bridget
jasmineanne
I find photo albums are good,it stimulates their mind,and it makes them use their brain, working out who everyone is.My Mum can't read,knit,or concentrate on TV anymore.She has Dementia.Also looking at Picture books together.Also in the UK.there is a childs card game called "snap"you put cards down,and match them,we have a lot of fun playing that.
anonymous101100
Bless her heart! I would get yarn scanes (sp) and have her roll them into balls of yarn, or can she knit? My grandmom used to crochet loops on hangers so clothes wouldnt slide off, she has been gone 32 years and I still love them. Would she be able to do photo albums with thiose fancy decorations you can buy? There is lots of books on this , try amazon, good luck!
Jsomebody
She may be happy just to sit and talk with you now and then too, about her life and yours. After all, that is a lot of memories...
M1953
I liked the photos idea, maybe some scrap booking with the pictures! That way she can work with colors, etc. I thought would be unique to take a laptop & tell her you would like to journal her life, after all when she is gone you will not be able to do that! Just her age alone is unique! She could probably tell you about the first vehicle she remembers, etc. I also liked the coloring idea also as well as the cross word puzzles. At cracker barrel restaurants is a little triangle shaped game with golf tees in it, she might like to play that or checkers might be easier to handle! Good luck! M from Illinois
N1K2R3
Magazines! I drop off magazines at the various nursing homes around town, and they love it! The staff disposes of them after a month and then I carry over some more.
You say she is 100 years young and no medical problems and in a nursing home. A shame she is in a nursing home because it seems she is in good condition. Some look at the age and just assume that there is diminished capacity. Make her feel vital and needed. Make her think and learn. Challenge her to the fullest. Treat her like the wise person that she likely is. Get her involved with younger folks outside the nursing home setting as much as possible. Of course if health deteriorates, mental and or physical adjustments can be made. Don't fear giving her something to be concerned about even to the extent of reasonable worry. If possible get her away from the folks who really do need to be in the nursing home as much as possible. Fill her with love and respect.
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