My mother was inquiring about the Aid and Assist program with the local AoA, and she was contacted by a company that helps with the paperwork promising a push thru, and having required paperwork filled out so as no delays, getting approval in 3 months instead of 6 months etc. my mother was visited and asked questions to establish eligibility and they visited my father to see his condition was legitament, then they told her they needed 750.00 to proceed with the paperwork etc., which she paid, they did send her the receipt for deposit and stay in contact we are still waiting on the doctors portion...my question is on the Aid and Assist portion of the VA site it says it is illegal to charge for these services, when is it not illegal to charge? I don't want them taking advantage of my elderly mother whom is trying to get help to hire an nighttime nurse for my father, and help with his personal over the counter needs....she doesn't want me to ask them directly or make waves for fear they are ligit and then decide not to help her because there is tons of paperwork involved and it has to be prepared correctly or you have to start over, my mother is 79 and my father is 89, they also told her that when my father passes they can then transfer the A&A to her but only charge her 450.00 for that paperwork, I don't understand if the A&A program is trying to help elderly strapped for cash, how or why if it is legal that they would charge so high a fee for paperwork...any advice will be appreciated....my mother does not want me to say anything because she is desperate for the help but something does not feel right....thank u