Commented on a discussion 11/24/2008 at 7:48 pm
hi everyone, well things are back to normal now. my back is better after the cortisone shots and the medication that i have now. thank goodness, as i have around 25 coming to my house for thanksgi
...Read Morehi everyone, well things are back to normal now. my back is better after the cortisone shots and the medication that i have now. thank goodness, as i have around 25 coming to my house for thanksgiving. some staying for the weekend, some for the day, but nonetheless, all will be here to eat. My son told his wife, mom will gather up all the strays that have no other place to go, she always has, always will. lol. well, it is really griping my mom to no end. she is so worried about where they will all sleep, where they will all sit to eat. I am not worried, they know i have a small house, but choose to be here rather than somewhere else, and i am honored. She has prevented me from having company too long. I am changing that starting NOW. She can pitch a fit if she wants to, i am going to enjoy my life, and i am no longer going to let her rule it. Today she said she never gets to go anywhere, that i go all of the time. that is almost the straw that broke the camels back, because i go out of my way to take her places. and if she cant go, a lot of times i dont go myself to keep from feeling guilty that she is sitting and cant go. Back to normal. she is being her old witchy self again, and yes, greek, that woman will not let me talk on the phone. i cant even conduct any kind of business or talk to my friends without her listening to me all the time. I am even afraid of going to the bank to take care of things, because she always wants to go, and rather than do the things i have to do, i just let it go, because i dont want her nose in every thing i do or say. i have gotten to the point where i dont talk to my friends on the phone, dont talk to anyone but my sons, and she is always listening and wanting to carry on a three way conversation. and my best friend lives 3 doors down, and i cant even go to visit her more than once a month or so, because of my mothers extreme jealousy and possessiveness of me. i am so imprisoned. and dont want to sound like a griper, but sometimes i hate her with all my might. just want to be free from her and responsibility of caring for her. well gotta go. luv all you girls, Donna