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SecretSister
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We lost two Dads in 2011, which is difficult. Now I'll have more time for our son.

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Dad passed into heaven on December 9, 2011. I miss my Dad.

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anonymous13319 commented 1/12/2012 at 9:41 am

Secret Sis: So happy to hear from you...I remember how wonderful you were to me when I first joined the forum....always thoughtful advice...Lilli

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tennessee commented 1/11/2012 at 4:12 pm

Spending Christmas with Jesus this Year by Wanda Bencke is the poem I was talkin about.

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tennessee commented 1/11/2012 at 11:15 am

SecretSister,I'm very sorry about your dad. Losing someone we love is never easy, Dads always have a special place in a daughters heart,don't they. It has been years since I lost my dad now,but I stil ...Read More

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christina28 gave a hug 12/31/2011 at 5:23 pm

I OFFER MY CONDOLENCES ON THE PASSING OF YOUR DEAR FATHER.
I have seen your name and read so many of your posts. Bobbie has spoken so nicely about you on Grossed Out thread, and you are a sister, ...Read More

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NANCE commented 12/31/2011 at 5:22 pm

So sorry that your Dad passed-I know how hard that is.Prayers sent your way.

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anonymous13319 commented 12/31/2011 at 5:01 pm

I am so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. You have been such a loyal member of AC and helped everyone here with your compassion and kind advice. I hope you will stay. My condolences....Lilli

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karieh commented 12/20/2011 at 2:33 pm

Sorry to hear about your Dad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The AgingCare.com Team.

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Lynnla gave a hug 12/6/2011 at 3:50 pm

Back at you SecretSister!!! Thanks for the hugs...Take care of yourself!! You deserve it!!HUGS!!

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SecretSister posted 12/6/2011 at 1:16 pm

Dad is slipping away. He is no longer able to swallow liquids, or food. He's not talking or walking. We grieve.

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stuck1 commented 12/2/2011 at 12:34 pm

I see further down that Lynnia mentions her mother "sucking the life out of her." Totally understand ... have used those same words! Lord, help us all. Someone also mentioned how it's much more peacef ...Read More

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angie1 gave a hug 11/16/2011 at 12:19 am

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tennessee gave a hug 9/29/2011 at 10:32 am

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tennessee commented 9/29/2011 at 10:32 am

Hey.SS saw your name while reading and popped in.Hope your hanging in there-I'm trying to stay as far away from lawyers as possible-Kids a graduated black belt now and getting pretty good-she enjoys t ...Read More

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Lynnla commented 9/22/2011 at 2:26 pm

Thanks for sharing. I am my mom's COURT ordered Guardian/Conservator since 10-2006. I have "thrown in the towel"!! I am done ! Mom is in a nursing home, health & mental issues. JUST like your mom!! 5 ...Read More

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Lynnla gave a hug 9/22/2011 at 2:05 pm

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LyricaLady gave a hug 9/19/2011 at 6:01 pm

You are not alone

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Patricia75 gave a hug 7/15/2011 at 5:31 am

I understand and sympathize with your problem!

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yearight gave a hug 6/22/2011 at 2:07 am

Hi sister, I was thinking about you and thought I'd check in. How are you doing. I see that your FIL passed away. My Mom passed away on March 29th. Wow, life is so much more peaceful. I still have my ...Read More

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Dtflex commented 6/15/2011 at 7:45 pm

Hi Ann, I just came across your name and wanted stop in and say hello. I am so sorry to see about your father in law. No matter how trying or how much we prepare, its always a terrible sadness to lo ...Read More

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bobbie321 gave a hug 4/10/2011 at 9:18 am

the 'we' is the Cat and Nik and I.
with the fuel prices what they are it would be more logical for you to fly cheap to the nearest airport! this boat's masts are too tall to make it through down ...Read More

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bobbie321 gave a hug 4/9/2011 at 9:01 pm

Sorry for the loss of your fil. awful sad. And I'm sorry about the legal issues and the fact that your dad is declining. so sad and so tough to go through all of it all at once. You stay strong an ...Read More

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bobbie321 gave a hug 4/9/2011 at 8:27 pm

Hey there!
It is so good to see you! forgive me for not responding sooner! PTSD and all of that. How are you?
lovbob

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mniemczura gave a hug 2/26/2011 at 11:00 am

Just starting this process with my aunt. she is only 75 and has gone downhill quickly. Good luck and remember to take time for YOU.

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SecretSister posted 2/8/2011 at 11:17 pm

FIL passed @ 91 in January. Still stings at times, b/c my Dad is at the same facility he was. Now there's an empty spot, and Heaven's gain.

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Gave a hug to NANCE 1/11/2012 at 7:57 pm

Dear Nance, thanks for your comforting note. Wishing you the best in 2012! Hugs, SS

Gave a hug to christina28 1/11/2012 at 7:55 pm

Dear Christina,

Thank you for your beautiful note, and sentiments. Your words were a comfort and blessing. Hoping you have a good 2012, and many blessings in the days ahead.
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Gave a hug to tennessee 1/11/2012 at 4:27 pm

Dear Tenn, thanks for your nice note on my wall. We're just starting to adjust to Dad's heaven-going. Still have lots of paperwork, and other things to do. I'm rarely here, unless a notification o ...Read More

Wrote on karieh's wall 12/20/2011 at 11:35 pm

Karieh, thank you for your kind message concerning my Dad. That was thoughtful of you.

On My Mind... 12/20/2011 at 2:17 pm

Dad passed into heaven on December 9, 2011. I miss my Dad.

Gave a hug to tennessee 12/6/2011 at 1:27 pm

Tenn, you're an angel. Sorry for not getting back to you sooner. Glad to learn you and daughter are doing well. My dad is slipping away, which is very hard on me. Heaven's looking sweeter all t ...Read More

Gave a hug to angie1 12/6/2011 at 1:22 pm

Gave a hug to Lynnla 12/6/2011 at 1:20 pm

Lynnla, you wrote on my dad's bday. He is slipping away... It's sad to watch the decline. Hope things are better for you concerning your mom, and distance. Take care, SS

On My Mind... 12/6/2011 at 1:16 pm

Dad is slipping away. He is no longer able to swallow liquids, or food. He's not talking or walking. We grieve.

Gave a hug to stuck1 12/6/2011 at 1:15 pm

Wrote on stuck1's wall 12/6/2011 at 1:14 pm

Hugs to you! I can relate to what you're going through. Best regards, SS

Gave a hug to Patricia75 7/23/2011 at 3:53 pm

Patricia, thanks for your hug! Here's one in return. Take care.

Gave a hug to bobbie321 4/10/2011 at 4:03 pm

Bobbi, so glad you have your Nik there. Praying it all works out well for you. Thanks for your kind words of encouragement! ~Anne

Gave a hug to bobbie321 4/9/2011 at 9:13 pm

Still hoping to see you and that boat on Lake Charlevoix one day. Or...I may have to find you. Who's the "we" on your boat?

Wrote on ROXANNE's wall 4/9/2011 at 8:53 pm

Google Personality Disorders. My mom is worse than a nightmare. Sounds like yours is, too. Check Borderline Personality Disorder, and go from there. Mine tried to kill us when we were little, ...Read More

Gave a hug to bobbie321 4/9/2011 at 8:45 pm

Bobbi, I am in survival mode. FIL passed in January. My dad is declining, sleeping a LOT, eating less. Back in court with mom, and her nasty lawyer. I'm numb. Worked in the garden for the 1st ...Read More

Gave a hug to bobbie321 4/9/2011 at 6:03 pm

Miss you dear friend. Luv Anne

Gave a hug to lovingdaughter 2/8/2011 at 11:23 pm

Dear Loving Daughter, I hope this finds you well. It's been a long time... How are you, and how's your mom? I'd love to reconnect when you are able. Blessings! ~SS

On My Mind... 2/8/2011 at 11:17 pm

FIL passed @ 91 in January. Still stings at times, b/c my Dad is at the same facility he was. Now there's an empty spot, and Heaven's gain.

Gave a hug to bobbie321 2/8/2011 at 11:14 pm

Hi Bobbie, just a note back at you. Sorry it took so long. I couldn't log in for months. Today I was finally successful. I hope this note finds you well. How's the boat?

Gave a hug to bobbie321 11/6/2010 at 8:33 am

Bobbie, just read your cat story. Haven't been to this site in ages. So, you're still on the boat, and near Alaska? Hope all is well with you. Where will you spend the winter? Still hanging i ...Read More

Gave a hug to lovingdaughter 11/6/2010 at 8:09 am

Linda, don't know what brought me to this site today, but I started poking around and found your wall. I pray you find the needed rest to do what's best for you. Time for some relaxation. God bl ...Read More

Gave a hug to linda09 9/14/2010 at 8:50 am

Hi sweet Linda. I'm with you, and like the monkeys, too. Thanks for your hug! Hope you are doing well!

Gave a hug to bobbie321 9/14/2010 at 8:48 am

Hello Bobbie! Just a note to say hello. Praying all is well with you. Are you enjoying the boat? Hugs!

Gave a hug to deefer12 9/14/2010 at 8:44 am

Here's a hug to brighten your day! Hope all is well.

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