This individual is my father-in-law and we care for him very much. My husband and I are in our mid 50's and are both employed. My father-in-law lives with his daughter. She has tried to talk to him, but he gets mad, stating too much water is not good for the skin. To put it bluntly, he stinks and I don't even want to visit him, but I feel guilty. My husband has also tried talking to hm, but he gets mad at my husband as well.
I am caring for my father, Anthony, who is 84 years old, living at home and the primary ailment is heart condition / stroke.