I live 2 hrs. away from my parents, they are both still living in their home. Mom is very stubborn and is constantly going in her pants, both 1 & 2 but refuses to wear depends and gets very nasty when ask to do so. Even sugested removing all her panties and replacing them with depends but my Dad won't allow it because he has to live with her. She is losing control and won't listen to anyone. I want to learn more of what I can do to make my mom listen to us.
I am caring for my mother, ann, who is 90 years old.