Commented on a discussion 6/1/2010 at 6:43 pm
To Seasonedwoman, I know your pain. I lost my daughter, almost 4 years ago, this Xmas Eve. She was my only daughter, not that it would have made any difference if I had 10 daughters. A loss of a ch
...Read MoreTo Seasonedwoman, I know your pain. I lost my daughter, almost 4 years ago, this Xmas Eve. She was my only daughter, not that it would have made any difference if I had 10 daughters. A loss of a child is a loss of a child. I just read your post before I left for my grief group. I went to a grief support right after my daughter died in 2006 with her husband and little 3 year old son. It was a place that was really geared for the children, called Journey of Hope. It was a wonderful place to begin healing. I now facilitate a group there myself, because I knew I still needed more. More of what, I can't tell you, but I needed to be able to talk around people who knew exactly what I am going through. My prayers and thoughts are with you at this most horrendous time in your life. Try to find other people who have experienced what you have. Cry when you need to, yell when you need to. Your husband will never truly understand, but tell him to give you your quiet moments when you need them. You will evolve, in how you cope, etc. But right now, grieve. It is what you need.