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8/10/2010 at 3:13 pm

Thank you so very much for caring enough to send me a message. It is getting worse by the day. My sister called, and said she doesn't think she can keep my mother much longer...although they were s
...Read MoreThank you so very much for caring enough to send me a message. It is getting worse by the day. My sister called, and said she doesn't think she can keep my mother much longer...although they were supposed to be looking at places around my sister for at least 2 weeks. My mother is now demanding that my sister drive her to my mother's home town, which is 4 hours there and 4 hours back. My sister's husband is dying from rental failure, and she is on 2 different types of blood pressure medicine. It doesn't seem that my mother cares. My sister said she was trying to help me, and she would keep going until she gets her settled somewhere away from me. It's such a nightmare. My sister is a nurse, and did confirm that there is no dementia, Alzheimer's, or any other condition that would be causing this kind of cruelty. I appreciate your words of encouragement, because we are stumbling through this in the dark and praying a lot. I long for the mother I once had...but that person is gone. It's heartbreaking, and you're right...no one can understand this unless they have been through it themselves. It's just too painful for words.
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