>Q: Should I quit my job to take care of my elderly parents?
A: Before considering quitting your job, I would first recommend having your aging parents' overall situation assessed to determine what their current needs are. Contact your local Council on Aging who, in many areas, will conduct a free assessment to determine what the level of care your elderly mother and father would require and what resources are available in the area. Visit http://www.eldercare.gov/.
Secondly, I would get a handle on what your parent's financial situation is (income, expenses, house value) to determine what they are able to afford for in-home services. Based on income levels and need, there may be resources available to them.
Also, if one parent is a veteran, they would also be entitled to benefits -- http://www.vabenefitsservice.com/. If they need additional care that you or an aide are unable to provide and your parents could afford it, suggest looking at assisted living facilities – http://www.alfa.org/. ow there are many resources and support -- caregiver groups, Internet and books that can provide the help you need. If you have siblings, suggest you have a family meeting and determine how they can get involve and help.
Gail M. Samaha is the founder of GMS Associates, and created an elder care planning division for elders and caregivers.
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