Now that dad died my sister thinks she should be in charge of every decision that my mother should make. Our mom was a housewife and was left with a good amount of money. My sister feels she should tell her how to spend it, etc. She gets so angry if I dont agree or go along with her decisions. I think it is moms money and if she isnt spending foolishly its her choice. Even if she does spend it on dumb stuff isnt it her choice unless it hurts her? She sold a car to her ex son in law and my sister went balistic! She wants me to side with her. At times she is down right abusive. We all tip toe around her.