We had to sit her down and tell her she has to have home care. She can't manage her medications, even with an automatic dispenser. Her bills are all behind, and she wasn't eating properly. Now she calls non-stop complaining. I have to just let her leave a message, because I'm burned out from a year of trying to get home care, and now listening to the complaints. Some family members think I should answer the calls when them come in and try to talk to her, but she doesn't remember the conversations, or even that she called.