Hi friends... I was about to return to work when my dad got sick. So I have stayed at home while we figure out how to make all of this work. My family easily needs to bring in at least 2000 more a month to make it work. We would easily be paying more than 2000 for a nursing home. I feel it is an equitable exchange caring for my dad and him paying me $2,000/month for full time care. My husband feels that he is our parent and that we don't take money from our parents to care for them. I need some outside input to see more clearly. Thanks in advance.