My husband and I have decided that my father-in-law will spend his final days in the hospice care facility. The hospice workers feel that time will be soon. Everyone thinks it's best to just tell him he is going for symptom management, as he is in denial about his disease.
I have spent the last two and half years, taking care of my fil, full time.
I have decided that I will not spend all of my time at the care facility, when he is admitted.
I might add that the years have been very hard, as my fil is a VERY difficult man.
I do not know what my husband is going to do, but I just do not want to go there, other than some visits.
Am I wrong to feel this way?