Mom's previous atty's were great, kept me informed with any and all changes re mom, they are now retired; problem started Feb. 2010 when my sister became Sole POA, and I was taken off. She has taken money and who knows what else, won't communicate with me regarding our mother on anything; she has put untrue ideas in mom's head. Mom (87) has some stage of dementia but won't go to the Dr. to find out what stage. Every Time I bring up the subject of getting a copy of the trust, my mom gets belligerent, paranoid and thinks I just want her to die and want her money. Mom has always stated she wants her estate to be 50-50 between my sister and me, but I think things have been changed since my sister has already broken the trust with her having taken a substantial amount of money out of the checking acct that all our names were on, moved mom's social security to the new acct, has only her name on the savings acct with POA/POD added after her name. She will not send me a copy of the trust, does not keep me updated on anything. I live 300 miles away, call my mom every Sunday, sometimes more, and talk with her for an hour to two hours. I am concerned that the trust has been changed, possibly removing me, or not giving me much and possible adding her children as beneficiaries. I can't get my mom involved because she gets very upset in which I don't blame her. I just want her to live her life in peace but I am trying to preserve her wishes and my interest as well. My sister has pulled these selfish things before with our father, that didn't work because he had everything locked, and also with her ex-in-laws. Mom's current attorneys will not speak with me and I don't know how to check and make sure everything is safe and the way our mother wants everything for all of us. I need some help please. I do go over to see my mom when my wife and I can, but now when she gets in her belligerent, nasty, paranoid moods she does not want anyone in her house. My sister is uncooperative and I think she is doing things to benefit herself since she became Sole POA. None of this happened before mom got these new attys and everything changed. Mom does not remember what she signs when she goes to the attys office, she just signs, "what they tell me to", because she just wants to go home and be with her cats. She doesn't remember signing the withdrawal slip taking the substantial amount out of the bank and moving it either. I need help in case my suspicions are correct and my sister is doing corrupt things against mom's will. My sister told me if you want a copy of the trust I will give you one when she's gone. If everything would go my sister's way, her justification would be, that is the way mom wanted it and goodbye. But as I iterated, mom has repeatedly told me she wants things 50-50 between us. Anyone been through this and know how to handle this situation?