My husbands has 3 kids that haven't had anything to do with him for years. He is 72 and I am 49. He had made a lot of money and assets in the 10 years we have been together. We both have made out our wills thru an attorney. And everything we have is in LLC'S to try to a void probate as well as his 2 daughters and son. Whom have already been given a sizeable trust years ago but have all gone thru it. One girl lives in Florida and the other in Arkansas and the boy in Missouri. He has grandkids and great grandkids that he has never met or only been allowed to see them a couple times. The girl in Florida he talks to regularly but has not seen in years. And she is very jealous of the fact that he will only claim my daughter's daughter as a grandchild . He got to name her and has got to spend a lot of time with her. We left everything to her in our wills. We have an assigned executor and even detail is spelled out in our wills. Everything comes to me or him if one should pass then to her should the other pass. The executor is not family and she can not have it until she is 25 unless she is willing to move to the Ranch AND go to collage. And even then she will not have total access to everything. We do not want her mother and father taking advantage of her. Like they did me for 7 years. And he absolutely does not want any of his kids to get so much as 1 red cent.