I stand to get a decent inheritance from my parents (89) in my name only. (If I pass before my parents, their money goes to my kids and not my husband. I don't know if this is normal or if they perceived my husband's abuse over the years and excluded him from benefiting from their money.)
My husband has two different dementia diagnoses so I know the time will come that he will go to memory care. Can the inheritance from my parents to me and in my name only be required for payment for his memory care or will it strictly be based on his retirement and medicare income?