My dad has moderate dementia , severe incontinence and requires 24/7 care. We placed him in NH in September. He still weeps, begs to come home, says he is so so sorry for whatever he did. Etc. it just breaks my heart. We chose a NH close to us and he is visited twice a day. It is not the best facility to say the least and we have witnessed verbal abuse. Our family is going through hell and so us dad. He also was not happy with home health care all the folks coming in and out upset him and us. I cry daily over the whole horrible situation. I have a family. I even quit my job to care for dad before NH. My mom took care of dad until she passed and she never wanted him to be in nursing home. I have contacted multiple agencies and they only offer help a few hours a week. It just seems there are no good choices. Read is becoming combative to the nurses so now they have him drugged up and in bed all day. Help!