My wife was moved back and forth between her mom and grandmother. She was exposed to terrible things! Her mom shows narcissistic / mean behavior. We really can’t have her living with us. My wife has a very good heart but she is so stressed out, I worry about her. We live in NC but to go to a nursing home she has to have something physically wrong or mental problems. Need guidance please if available. We can’t leave the house for a few days w/o someone staying here.