My cousin's husband is becoming increasingly mean and belligerent to her - and now in public especially when he yells and swears. Their friends have noticed it, too. But, when she accompanies her husband to doctor appointments (cardiologist, orthopedist, general) he says he is fine and nothing is wrong. The doctor spends maybe 15 minutes with him every six months, so he takes the husband's comments at face value. When my cousin tries to tell the doctor about what she sees/hears/tolerates 24/7 the doctors say, "Well, that's not what he says." Who can help her help him?