A widowed elder of 5 years finds herself alone, having memory issues, basically healthy, not allowed to drive, @ least 2 miles from nearest store, can't afford to stay in home of 40 years, and is resisting all change. 75 years old. Very combative about any thing different. what to do? The house needs to be sold. 2 sons live in town and daughter lives 1200 miles from home. Suggested 6 months North and 6 months south, but, doesn't want any change. Also, many negative attention traits such as not eating unless others present, won't take pills, etc.