I thought having my father-in-law with us was the kind and caring thing to do. I obviously had no idea what I was walking into. My husband has POA, etc. I make the meals, clean, appointments, care for pets, etc. My SIL is angry that about dad’s money. Apparently we should have been keeping track of every penny that comes out of his money, every medical decision made, etc. Though I already feel exhausted, I need to find what the legal requirements are and make sure I have everything documented, which sounds time consuming. I am thinking having a kind heart is sheer stupidity. Any links to what a POA and caregiver must legally document and provide to the non-POA and non-caregiver sibling will be greatly appreciated. Thank you to each of you.