I was on my fathers checking acct. for 8 yrs until I needed to apply for med. assist. I was told that I was over income because of my name on his account. It was suggested that if dad and I got POA papers and took my name off checking that I would be eligible. Dad said ok so long as we could keep on like we had been doing past 8 yrs. I got online, printed POA paper and we went to notary and signed the papers. Prior to taking POA papers to assistance office I found out husband (we were separated) could not take me off his insurance as he had told me. So, in essence, I would have still been on my dads accounts had it not been for this incident. For the next 11 yrs we continued on in the same manner as prior to the POA. At some point I looked the papers over and told Dad, it stated I needed to keep account of everything. We didn't realize there were different types of POA. He said "I don't care what that paper says. You just keep on doing what your doing. This is my money and my business and I'll do whatever I want with it." We continued on in this manner until his death. After Dad's will came out and it wasn't to one of my brothers liking he made this accusation against me. Now he's requesting Dad's accounting of which Dad told me was not necessary because it was his money and he could do as he pleased. I do not understand if Dad would have even made such a statement to him why didn't he try to help him locate it? As I stated earlier he wasn't happy with dads will and I said to be fair we should all get a quarter. His reply to that was if he'd known that last week he wouldn't have had to do what he did. Requesting bank account info. On top of this the brother and sister who hadn't spoke for many yrs. became best friends in a couple of hrs. Lowest blow they've come up with is Dad was racist and would never give my adopted African American daughter anything. In the real world they were very close and the bond they shared can never be taken away. I just can't believe family members would stoop so low.