I get so resentful and mad which I need to let go of. But why am I the only one doing everything???? No one EVER EVER asks if I need help. It is just assumed and ignorant to think things just take care of themselves. I am getting married and moving out within a month (finger's crossed!) and I am already cooking up anxiety ridden senario's about getting phone calls regarding my parent. My fiance said I should expect a call saying they need help but when is enough enough for one person? Any advice would be much appreciated.