I’ve been caring for my mom for over 11 years. She is in her 90’s. I’m now completely burnt out. We have care but it’s still impossible for me to have a life. Instead of addressing my illnesses, having time for me, mom talks the caregivers into calling me or knocking on my door? I am told to go to my floor in the house but my mom finds a way, excuses to bug me. It’s not important, she tells lies, says horrible things the second caregivers are not in the room with us. I have been hurt physically by her, yet nobody will address the knives she’s hiding in her bedroom! I am not able to move out due to illness. When my mom tells stories, acts badly, manipulates, lies, has outbursts at me, why is this not being dealt with? I feel so alone in this, I’m being ignored and her bad behaviour is ruining my life. I really can’t take it any more. I’m afraid of my mom and nobody hears me. What can I do? I’m so burnt out, afraid, confused. Her bad behaviour is not addressed, it’s always blamed on me. Mom has turned into the violent ugly mean alcoholic she was when I was a young teen. Suggestions?