Why is grandmother so afraid of silence?

For many people, silence is relaxing and restorative, but for some older people, I think it can be a time when thoughts wander to unpleasant topics.

Perhaps you could substitute CDs for the TV. I don't even know if CD players can still be bought b/c so much entertainment has become device based, but if you can get one of the multi-CD players, you could stack it with CDs that would provide a few hours of entertainment.

Write out very detailed instructions so she can change the CDs and keep the music coming.

If you're there in the evening, put on some soothing CDs. There are a variety of calming, restorative and restful CDs that can be therapeutic. My sister had one of sounds of waves washing ashore. It may sound boring, but the rhythm is very soothing. Harp music is also peaceful and calming.

Or get CDs of her favorite singers.

What an interesting question! I've never thought of the fear of silence.

I know a man who has bipolar disorder. He can't stop talking! He repeats himself and makes the same points over and over. Grrr.... he is very hard to talk to. But he is a kind and generous soul and he does have friends. This talking thing has improved a lot since he has been through therapy and is on a good drug regime.

I have two other friends who talk a LOT. They seem self-centered to me. I wonder if they are "afraid" of silence or if some other small impairment causes this.

I am an introvert and I like silence. But now that I live alone I find I often like music playing. It makes me feel less isolated. It is a small connection to the rest of humanity. I may be alone, but here is a connection to a composer who lived two hundred years ago and an announcer who is talking to lots of other people out there.

I would not try to change GM's habits when she is on her own. But for your own comfort when you are with her, try some of the suggestions in other posts.

It has to do with brain function. Some brains need constant input in order to function. These are people who like noisy parties and go shopping at peak mall traffic periods. Other brains already have enough inner noise and will seek peace and quiet.

I'm 74 and use to like it quite, but now I have the t.v. On, or my mind starts thinking of the future which is scary, and what will happen to her so if there's noise you can't think

If you read the bible the new testament you will find it very coming, and it gives you hope after one goes to heaven, because there is a heaven where God and others live happily