Today, a different personal care aide came to my home without the home health agency giving me advance notice. I was so frustrated with a different aide showing up without advance notice, I told her that she can leave because husband is not feeling well and I will be home all day with him. I have told the agency that my husband has special needs and when so many different aides come he gets confused due to dementia and Parkinson's disease. Also, had another stroke last October. This agency does not listen...I told the nurse who came out the first time that his condition and the time I would like for them to come out and they changes the time on me without notice and I am just frustrated. I did call VA and talk to the individual who is in charge of finding agencies for Vets. She told me that she sympathize for what I have gone through and will be terminating the care for my husband. I am glad of that...but, I do need a break. I feel like the health care system has fell senior citizens in regard to aides coming to your home. They come into your home and just feel they should be only baby sitters and with my husband's need is more than just sitting and waiting for their time to be over. I am going to see what I can do to make this better for all seniors who need home care as far as an aide coming in to your home. Has anyone experience the same frustration with the service of personal care aides employed by home health care agency?