I have a sister and a brother who could be helping me with expenses. Mom is in AL & I take her to all appointments, for outings, hair salon, etc. They've never once offered to help with my costs for all this. I live a 2&1/2 hour drive away! There are nephews who live 20 minutes away! But nothing. I don't know how to approach the subject. Or - do i see how mom would feel about moving to a home in my city? She has been in her current AL for almost a year. How traumatic would that be for her? Anyone done that?