I thought I should open a new discussion for this question/topic. I've been struggling with the feeling that I'm not doing enough. I take care of everything for my dad at his house in the morning then head to see my mom at rehab. I live an hour away from rehab. I'm getting run down and need a day at home and feel guilty about it. I have Addison's disease so sometimes I'm just so tired I can't think. No one gets it because I "look" healthy. My husband is great, but is often traveling for work. I definitely have that Catholic guilt thing going on. Do others experience this? How do you handle it? My mom is now is a safe good rehab, so why do I feel like I need to be there everyday? I feel bad that my dad is lonely and try to be there as much as possible too.