We have never gotten along, but it's worse now that she's older and needs more care. I am the only living immediate family left, we lost my brother to colon cancer in 2012 and I brought her to my home to live with me as she had been living with him in an old mobile home 17 miles away. If she doesn't get her way or doesn't want to do what I ask she threatens to call the police, or threaten to take me to court for abuse. The more I do for her the less she does for herself, she no longer gets dressed, combs her hair, washes, etc. Frequently she forget to take her heart and blood pressure medicines. She says I make things up, denies doing things she has done or said, I have a vivid imagination and laughs at me. She perfectly fits the Narsisstic Mother profile. She says she hates it at my house but won't leave always has excuses as why she can't, too much money for rent, etc. I get to the point I'm so frustrated I stop speaking and shut down and won't do a thing for her. Nothing I ever do is right anyway, and she says she does nothing wrong, it's all me. I'm at my wits end. Called her doctor today and left a message for Elder Services to talk to a counselor. And I'm made at my self feeling guilty and like I'm doing something wrong to find some peace and care for myself.