I know the "why" of it doesn't really matter, but I'm so scared and frustrated. How can an adult who raised 2 kids, and did all the shopping and cooking for them, not understand that our bodies need protein and fresh veggies every day? That sweetrolls and coffee are not enough to live on? If my brother and I had tried to get away with that, he would have insisted that we eat proper food. And yet here is is (88, no Alzheimer's, mild dementia), refusing every day to eat enough to keep himself going. What is he *thinking*?! What can I do to change his mind?