I am 52 yrs old and my children have finally found themselves. So now was the time for my husband and I to enjoy ourselves! Weekends away, traveling, restaurants!!! Then the hurricane came and when I finally got to Mom, I brought her back to my home until her utilities came back. But then, I realized that she needed more care than what she had and I decided to keep her with me. My life has totally changed! I have a 24 hr hha for her and everything revolves around Mom and what she wants to eat and do. She and the HHA live in my home and sometimes I feel I just visit. My husband and I do everything for Mom and I have her POA and I am her health care proxy. Mom has told me that she does not want anything shared with my sisters, and I respect that. Her business is her business and I don't share whatever with them. So now I got a card from a caseworker from where she lives asking me to call her in regards to Mom. Then a caseworker visited my home--but I was not home and the HHA did not answer the door. Why would anyone want to report someone who has changed their whole life for their parent and given up so much, Oh--did I add that Mom has lots and lots of money which is hers until the day she dies and if she wants to eat lobster and caviar and go on a safari--that is what we will do! I AM SO ANGRY and of course, hurt. What do I do?