My grandparents had 3 children. Billie, my father, Susan his sister and Jerry his brother. There were 4 burial plots bought and paid for before my grandparents passed away. Susan was born with MS and is disabled and is unable to sign her name. Grandmother, grandfather, and uncle Jerry have all passed away. Grandparents are in 2 of the 4 plots bought. Jerry is at Arlington National cemetary and Susan is still living but is disabled. My father wants me to have Jerrys plot leaving only Susan's left for her. the all 4 plots will be filled. My father has relinquished Susan over to the facility (the state) she is living in. He can no longer take care of her. The funeral home is wanting to know who the POA is and wants her (Susan) to sign off n the extra plot. She cannot do that because she has no idea what she is even signing. Who is the POA? Is it my Dad or the facility in which she lives and who can sign off for the funeral home? The state says it's my Dad and my dad says its the state but the funeral home needs to know. Any help you can give me would be greatly appreciated. All of Jerry's children have all signed off stating that they have no interest in their dads plot and that I am welcome to it. Ive got to transfer ownership to my name. Can you PLEASE help me as NO ONE seems to be able to answer who the POA is.