I am only child. She is 97. I am 60. I moved in with her 6 years ago when she was real sick. Her octor then said she had dementia. She gets mean, stubborn, breaks things, going deaf, macular degeneration and blames me for anything she does not like. She says she will not leave me the house. I am on medacare and medacaid. Had 6 back operations, poor vision. Should i find somewhere else ro live in case she dies and the state or somebody gets the house?