We take care of them/she controls funds. My husbands parents live in a in-law suite attached to our home and we help them. We provide their main meals plus. We have to remind them to take a bath and sometimes help. We also have to check the food in their refrigerator for spoiled food. They agreed when they moved in to help out with the food and their utilities. This has become a problem due to my husbands sister telling his parents that they have no money. When she sends funds for the utilities it is past the due date that we have to pay the bills and is putting a hardship on us. We want to make sure that my husbands parents have the proper nutrition and are kept social, due to their failing memory problems. My husbands older sister and brother have gone behind out back and taken his parents house and keep telling them that they don't have any money. My husbands sister and brother will not communicate and don't do anything for his parents, except take them to the cleaners. What can we do? who do we contact?