I have an in-law who lost her husband a little over a year ago. She has moved out of an affordable 1 bedroom apartment into an unaffordable 2 bedroom apartment & now does little else besides play on her laptop computer. (Talking to people she doesn't even know.) She does not take her medications as directed, does not bathe regularly, has recently stopped answering our calls. We don't know if it is up to us to make a decision to get her some help, or if there are "people" whose job it is to make those kids of decisions. She lives in Moline, IL and the closest relatives are us & we live in Normal, IL.