My mother is the caregiver to my father with dementia. My father does not have the ability to get to the restroom and has become very destructive mentally to my mother. He was in a care facility for two days and checked himself out of the facility. He needs professional care and won't accept care outside the home. My mother is struggling with pain in her shoulder and mentally, physically drained. Is there someone that I could call that could help me legally to get my father into the care that he requires at this stage and does not leave him the choice?