My husbands grandmother was living with his mom and she was taking care of her. She is 82 and has possibly been diagnosed with Dementia but we are unable to find any paperwork confirming this. His mom got sick and passed away at the beginning of the month leaving his grandmother with no supervision. He has a POA over his grandmother and we are trying to pick up the pieces of the puzzle and are at a loss. We have located a nursing home that is 5 minutes away and feel like this is the move we need to make to ensure that she has the care she needs. He drives a truck and is not home during the week and I work full time and tend to our kids and am not able to be here with her 24/7. We are receiving different stories, some saying we cannot put her in a home if she does not want to go unless we go to court and file for guardianship, others are saying with a durable POA we can make this decision. We have taken her to a doctor to make sure that we know all problems she has and tend to that, as for the dementia we will have to have tests run. We want to make the right decisions for her and make sure she is well taken care of and just need some guidance at this point.