Background: up until he was 93, he lived alone in another state with no support system. He drove to a drug store for food (Oreos and Coke). He drove to a restaurant daily to eat. He should not have been driving. My last visit the electrical was bad in the house, bathrooms leaked, etc etc. clothes were not washed. He refused help. My brother sold my dad’s car. I sold his house and we moved him to be near me. He’s now 94, getting worse. He’s in Assisted Living. Very little attention is being paid to him. His memory comes and goes. He has congestive heart failure. Do I move him to a different kind of care?