My parents are divorced, and my mother is very bitter.
She is also very poor, and she needs to move into a safer place.
My father is doing very well and has offered to extend help to my mom through me. She would never accept it directly.
Soon my mom will be offered an opportunity to move into a senior apartment. We can't afford to contribute to her rent, but my father can and wishes to.
Here's the question:
When she asks - and she will - what is the right thing to tell her?