My husband and I are the caregivers to my mother who has Alzheimer's and is entering the final stages. I've hired a helper before but it went badly because the woman would disregard what my mother wanted and did what she wanted to do instead. She also didn't seem to understand personal boundaries. I had to let her go. I realize that I can do the bulk of what my mom needs done if I can get someone reliable to come in a look after her when I'm called away for business or have to leave for shopping and errands. It would also be nice to get someone in who does light housekeeping. I haven't a clue where to begin looking for someone like this. I live in a small town with no programs for elderly people. Any ideas would be welcome. Thanks.