My Mom with dementia lives in an independent senior living and we help her daily. She has limited money available and assisted living is so expensive. She stays clean, cleans her apartment and fixes food for herself. I know the move would be horrible as she would not know where she is and would have a terrible time adjusting. We both work so cant move her in with us. How do I make this difficult decision? If she goes to assisted living she will probably be broke within two years. She is 87 years old and we know her dementia is getting worse.