I am an 85 year old male who has been caregiver to my 83 year old wife for the past 3 years. We have been married for 63 years. I am healthy but my wife has many problems and is unable to do anything. She has macular degeneration and her vision is very poor. She has early dementia and is incontinent and sometimes bowel movements. She wears diapers that are changed every 4 hours. She walks inside only with a walker, which is only a period of 30 minutes per day. She has many urinary tract infections which really knock her for a loop. We have a woman that comes every Tuesday from noon until 4 and she cleans and bathes my wife. This gives me a chance to play some golf or do something different. I know that I need more help but feel that I am the only person that can care for her effectively. My wife has lost her conversation ability and becomes agitated when asked questions that she can't answer because of her memory problem. I have tried to get her interested in audio books but she doesn't like that. Her day is spent listening to tv. I would like to hear some suggestions from those people that have been in our situation.