My mother died two years ago. I am living with/taking care of a psychologically abusive father. He has the financial means to have caregivers here. My older brother recently came down for a visit.. My father spent the entire time trashing me behind my back (I could easily overhear the nonsense) It is starting to feel like the only reasons I am here are to (1) keep him from throwing away thousands of dollars (live rent free). He has always been a chronic complainer who blows off steam over nothing but this situation is looking useless and idiotic. Is it time for me to just throw in the towel and bail?