My husbands uncle refuses any doctor visit but is very much house bound and at the point of bedridden. He doesn't eat he's yellow bleeding urine and nose bleed continuously I visit him 4-5 daily to help but it's getting to much he has fell almost daily and developing bed sores any mention of doctor he gets mad and refuses. He lives on pop cycles alone and very weak and wants to die. What do I do when does this get out my hands legally? He's 74 and just coughs up blood all day. .