She wouldn't want to live like this. She is in ALF for over a year. She hates it there, tells us that often. She has dementia and does not remember our visits, even a few hours later. When should we stop the BP meds, cholesterol meds, Namenda, etc to let nature take its course. Having these dementia problems was my mother's worse nightmare. I have medical power of attorney and am thinking of just continuing with pain meds as needed, and anxiety meds prn.