My parents 92 and 89 are currently living in AL. Both have more needs than when they moved there 9 months ago. Dad has heart, COPD, prostate and digestive issues. Mom has Alzheimer’s with all of the issues including anger. Mom also has issues with bad legs with swelling and crusting. She refuses bathing and showering. They are currently in one room because my did likes the closeness of the dining room.
Mom was assessed and eligible for the memory care care but my father refused to separate them.
I spoke to the wellness coordinator at the AL and she feels both would be approved and benefit. Neither are showing eminent signs of passing away.
Has as anyone faced these circumstances? Prayers please.....