Husband has vascular dementia over five years now. Short term memory almost non-existent. Was diagnosed in November 2015 with aml (acute leukaemia) he was discharged home with palliative care. He had two transfusions in hospital and one since being home. Approx 25days between. They are asking me to decide on future transfusions. In between he is back to how he has been for quite some time. How do I make that decision?